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Hide and Seek
Elira Bregu

A Lifetime of Christmas Spirit

Elda felt that Christmas was pure magic at her. Every year, when December arrived, the house turned into a sparkling wonderland, with tinsel, fairy lights, and the smell of gingerbread cookies. But what she loved most was the thrill of Santa Claus. She would write her letter in crayon, carefully folding it so her mother could mail it to the North Pole.


On Christmas Eve, she’d stay up as late as she could, hoping to catch a glimpse of Santa and his sleigh in the sky. In the morning, she’d run off the bed running to the living room to find the gifts under the Christmas tree believing, without question, that they were delivered by magic.

 

By fifteen, Elda understood more about Santa, but the holiday hadn’t lost its glow. Now, Christmas meant time off school, cozy gatherings with family, and the special warmth of sharing. Her family’s traditions—decorating the tree together, watching classic holiday movies, singing carols—were what made it special. It was no longer about gifts but about being with the people she loved, laughing over hot chocolate and card games, knowing this feeling would stay with her. The magic had deepened, becoming something richer and more lasting.

 

At twenty-five, for the first time, Elda and her fiancé hosted their own Christmas dinner. They bought a small tree for their apartment, and she felt a wave of nostalgia as they hung her childhood ornaments alongside new ones they had picked together. Christmas had become a chance to weave their lives together, blending traditions and building memories.

 

By forty-five, the hustle and bustle of Christmas had slowed. Her children were teens, growing more independent, and the holiday season had shifted again. Now, the quiet moments—sipping coffee by the tree in the early morning, the scent of pine and cinnamon filling the air—were what Elda treasured most. The spirit of Christmas had become something calm and reflective. She found joy in writing heartfelt cards, giving meaningful gifts, and savoring time with family.

 

At fifty-five, Elda had come to realize that Christmas was less about tradition and more about the spirit of kindness and giving. With her children grown, she found joy in helping her community—volunteering at the local food bank, donating gifts to families in need, and organizing a holiday meal for her neighbors. The Christmas spirit had taken on a deeper meaning, moving beyond her family to embrace those who might need a little extra light. Sitting by the window on Christmas Eve, she would think back on her life’s Christmases, grateful for each stage and the people she loved.


Elda’s journey through Christmas over fifty years had come full circle—from the pure excitement of a child to the joy of creating her own traditions, to the quiet reflection of giving back. She felt the Christmas spirit more than ever, but now it was rooted in wisdom, kindness, and a desire to share her blessings. And as she looked out at the lights glistening in the snow, she knew that her love for Christmas would live on, not only in her heart but in the hearts of everyone she had touched along the way.

 

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